20 Urdu Words For Dating: Express Your Love With More Passion

Words that come from the heart have an impact – dil se jo baat nikalti hai asar rakhti hai (دل سے جو بات نکلتی ہے اثر رکھتی ہے)’. It is a famous Urdu verse extracted from Allama Iqbal’s poetry.

And, undoubtedly, when it comes to love, there’s no better way to show affection than the heartfelt words.

What tops it up is expressing your love in your beloved’s native language. And, Urdu being the language of love is actually an icing on the cake.

So, if you are crushing hard on someone from Pakistan but don’t know how to confess due to the language barrier? Worry no more!

We have carefully made a list of some fascinating Urdu words for dating for you to truly confess your love and emotions to your partner and secure your date on this valentines day!

Urdu Words For Dating: The 3 Stages

Now let us start with the Urdu words and phrases with meanings and translations to make your dream come true. We will be going through sections corresponding to the stages of dating.

So, from the very beginning stage of talking to each other to the final phase of a relationship, we will walk through them all in this one blog.

If you are ready, let’s get started.

Stage One Of Dating

This is the stage where you first talk to your crush and break the ice between you two. It is much needed to start a conversation and introduce oneself to the other.

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ہیلو hello Hello

آپ کیسے ہیں aap kaisay hain How are you

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1. Hello! How Are You? – Hello! Aap Kaisay Ho? (ہیلو! آپ کیسے ہو؟)

The most convenient way of breaking the ice between two strangers is by greeting one another. Hello! aap kaisay ho? (ہیلو! آپ کیسے ہو؟) is the right way to start a conversation and the best opening for you to introduce yourself.

However, if you want to be more impressive, you can also go forward with the traditional greeting Asalaam-walaikum (اسلام علیکم), meaning “Peace be upon you.”

This will surely take your partner by surprise.

2. Can I Sit Next To You? – Kya Mein Aap Ke Paas Baith Sakta Hun? (کیا میں آپ کے پاس بیٹھ سکتا ہوں؟)

Since this is the first time you are seeing each other, you cannot recklessly go and sit next to them.

You have to politely ask kya mein aap ke paas baith sakta hon? (کیا میں آپ کے پاس بیٹھ سکتا ہوں؟).

Only if the person allows you to do so, then take a move forward and sit down next to them.

However, most people hesitate to let strangers sit besides them, especially in Pakistan. So, don’t sound aggressive or suspicious.

3. I Would Like To Introduce Myself – Mein Apna Ta’aruf Karwana Chahoonga (میں اپنا تعارف کرانا چاہوں گا۔)

Now is the time to break the awkward situation with a phrase that will make the situation more meaningful.

Before you start taking your names and hobbies, it is courteous to inform the person what you are willing to do.

So, mein apna taaruf karana chahoon ga (میں اپنا تعارف کرانا چاہوں گا۔) is the right way to go!

4. Can We Exchange Numbers? – Kya Hum Numbaron Ka Tabadla Kar Sakte Hain? (کیا ہم نمبروں کا تبادلہ کر سکتے ہیں؟)

After the introduction is done, you have to make the most important move, and that is to ask for their number. 

Kya hum nambaron ka tabadlah kar satke hain? (کیا ہم نمبروں کا تبادلہ کر سکتے ہیں؟) is the perfect way of asking and exchanging numbers without sounding like a creep.

Once you get your crush’s number, it is time to take the game to a new level.

Stage Two Of Dating In Urdu

The flirting stage begins here. Once you are done introducing and exchanging numbers, you have to start your game of compliments and woo your crush. Here is a list of phrases that will make your crush blush.

1. You Are So Beautiful/ Handsome – Tum Bohat Khoobsurat Ho (تم بہت خوبصورت ہو)

The first and the most common compliment that you must apply is tum bohat khobsorat ho (تم بہت خوبصورت ہو).

Since first conversations can get a little awkward sometimes, a love phrase like this will always come to your rescue. It will also make your partner comfortable.

2. I Love Your Outfit – Mujhe Aap Ka Libaas Pasand Hai (مجھے آپ کا لباس پسند ہے)

If you are trying to woo a lady, uttering mujhe aap ka libaas pasand hai (مجھے آپ کا لباس پسند ہے) is a must. Girls always put extra effort into their outfits to look good on their first outings with new people.

So, if you make them aware that you notice the effort and love it, it will bring a positive response. This also works with boys.

So, don’t miss out on such sentences.

3. You Have A Pretty Smile – Aap Ki Muskurahat Khoobsurat Hai (آپ کی مسکراہٹ خوبصورت ہے)

Another way to woo your crush is by complimenting their smile by saying aap ki muskurahat khobsorat hai (آپ کی مسکراہٹ خوبصورت ہے). The language of smiles can speak words that nothing can, even if you speak Urdu.

Jokes apart, everybody likes getting complimented on their smile. It will leave them with a kind impression of your personality and surely take the relationship forward.

Stage Three Of Dating

This is when you keep going on dates and meet each other often in a week or so. Although most couples take only one date to enter into a relationship, you can take your time and get to know each other slowly.

In this stage, you have to be more comforting and trustable.

1. Can I See You Again Tomorrow? – Kya Mein Ap Ko Kal Doobara Mil Sakta Hun? (کیا میں آپ کو کل دوبارہ دیکھ سکتا ہوں؟)

The most polite yet exciting way of asking someone out again is by saying kya mein aap ko kal dobarah dekh sakta hon? (کیا میں آپ کو کل دوبارہ دیکھ سکتا ہوں؟).

Even if your partner is not available to meet, you can take the rejection positively and continue texting or chatting instead.

2. Can I Buy You A Meal? – Kya Mein Aapka Khana Khareed Sakta Hun? (کیا میں آپ کا کھانا خرید سکتا ہوں؟)

Since Pakistan is not a place where you offer alcohol or drinks so casually, it is better to ask if you can buy them a meal by saying kya mein aap ka khana khareed sakta hon? (کیا میں آپ کا کھانا خرید سکتا ہوں؟).

Especially if you are the man, doing this will make your partner have a keen interest in you because who doesn’t like a gentleman? Use this to grab more attention and affection.

3. Do You Want To Watch A Movie Together? – Kya Aap Aik Sath Film Dekhna Chahtay Hain? (کیا آپ ایک ساتھ فلم دیکھنا چاہتے ہیں؟)

What can be a more romantic date idea than watching a movie together? Kya aap aik sath film dekhna chahtay hain?  (کیا آپ ایک ساتھ فلم دیکھنا چاہتے ہیں؟) is the right way to ask someone out for a movie date and have the best time of your life.

Enjoy the movie together as you slowly get cosy and comfortable with one another.

The Main Stage Of Dating

The time has finally come. Now that you know each other too well, you cannot wait any longer to express your love and emotions directly. It is time to confess your love and tie up the knot for future endeavors together.

1. I Like You – Mein Tumhe Pasand Karta Hun (میں تمہیں پسند کرتا ہوں)

If you want to take it one step at a time, mein tumhe pasand karta hun (میں تمہیں پسند کرتا ہوں) can be your savior. By doing so, you will get reassurance whether the other person feels the same about you or not.

Especially if you are the guy, you must be the first one to confess how much you like your crush and make her aware of your emotions.

However, girls are no less nowadays. You might be surprised as well.

2. I Love You – Mein Tum Se Pyar Karta Hun (میں تم سے پیار کرتا ہوں)

If your crush feels the same way about you and you are confident, there is no time to wait. Directly go to them and say mein tum se pyar karta hun (میں تم سے پیار کرتا ہوں) out loud.

If your partner accepts your proposal and reciprocates the same feelings, congratulations, your dream just came true!

More Dating Words And Phrases In Urdu

Below are a few more Urdu love words that you can learn to prepare yourself before Valentine’s day!

Tips To Intensify The Impact Of Urdu Words For Dating

Although love is not frowned upon in the country, especially in bigger cities like Karachi, there are unsaid rules that are always followed, no matter where you come from.

So, to express your love to your Urdu-speaking beloved, you must keep some family and societal norms in mind!

• First things first, avoid public displays of affection. Walking together on the roadside and having brunch together is fine, but avoid holding hands in the middle of a crowd, and do not hug or kiss each other. So, you should refrain from any public display of affection.
• If you are looking for a hookup or casual dating, you are not in the right place. In an Urdu family, casual dating is frowned upon, and there is a lot of pressure to get married. So, if you ever introduce yourself to the family members, you will be expected to marry the person you are dating.
• Praise your beloved as much as possible. It helps soften the hearts. And, nonetheless, who doesn’t like to be praised?
• You can also watch romantic Urdu movies to learn the dialogues or use Urdu songs to take your love expression to the next level!
• What’s a better way to express your love in Urdu than Urdu poetry? It is the heart of the Urdu language. Simply say, ‘You are not reality, but a longing; what meets in dreams, you are that wealth’ – tum haqiqat nahi ho, hasrat ho; jo mile khuwab main, wo daulat ho’ (تم حقیقت  نہیں ہو،  حسرت ہو
  جو ملے خواب میں وہ دولت ہو)

How Do You Say Dating In Urdu?

In Urdu, we say dating as mulaqat (ملاقات) or muhabbat ki mulaqat (محبت کی ملاقات). You can also say a romantic date – romanwi mulaqat (رومانوی ملاقات) to ask your beloved for the date.

Frequently Asked Questions About Urdu Words For Dating

What To Call A Lover In Urdu During A Date?

On a date, you can call your lover in Urdu as:

Beloved – mehboob/mehbooba (محبوب/محبوبہ)

Sweetheart – dil bar (دلبر)

My life – meri zindagi (میری زندگی)

Dear one – azeez (عزیز)

How To Say You Mean A Lot To Me In Urdu?

You can say ‘You mean a lot to me’ in Urdu as tum mere liye bohat aeham ho (تم میرے لئے بہت اہم ہو).

How Do You Say I am Thinking About You In Urdu?

If you are a boy, you can say ‘I am thinking about you’ in Urdu as me tumhare bare mein soch raha hun (میں تمہارے بارے میں سوچ رہا ہوں).

As a girl, you have to change the ending to soch rahi hun (سوچ رہی ہوں), making it I am thinking about you – me tumhare bare mein soch rahi hun (میں تمہارے بارے میں سوچ رہی ہوں).

Over To You!

Today, we learned about the three stages of dating and the different words and phrases that you can use at each stage to win your love.

To further help you express your love in Urdu, we have mentioned a few tips regarding Pakistani society and culture that you should remember before you take the first step!

So, now that you know all the perfect lines to convince your beloved for the date, nothing can stop you from making your crush your own.

Do not hesitate! Practice all these Urdu words for dating to show the efforts that you have put in to impress your crush.

Nonetheless, Pakistani people are very welcoming, and I am sure your crush will love to see that you have tried to own their culture.

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So, start your journey today and see how quickly you master the favorite language of your favorite person!